A Survival Guide for
WORKING WITH HUMANS

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TABLE OF CONTENTS
 

Introduction 

I. An Aggressive Species

1. When Sweet Revenge Isn’t So Sweet

2. Watch Out for the Eggshells

3. Don’ Fight – Find Out!

4. When to Turn Down the Volume – or Find Someone Else to Do it.

5. When a Problem Spirals out of Control

6. Prepare for the Worst-Case Scenario

7. When Nothing is the Best Solution

8. Keep it Clear, Clear, Clear

II. Political Animals

9. Choosing Your Battles

10. Watch Out for Confidences

11. When You’re Not in the Family

12. Dealing with Unearned Praise

13. The Blame Game

14. Besting the Betrayer

III. When Ethics Rears its Ugly Head

15. Don’t Let them Ethics You

16. When Someone Wants to Change the Rules

17. When there’s a Betrayer in the Group.

18. Finders Keepers – or not?

19. Fraud Happens

IV. People Who Ask Too Much

20. The Great Communicator – Not!

21. Learning to Let ‘em Go – Demanding Client 

22. The Give and Take Paradox

23. When Nothing Seems to Work, It’s Time to Go Legal

24. Passing the Responsibility Buck

25. Get out When You Can

26. When Help Turns to Help!!! – Get Me Out of Here

V. Capturing and Keeping the Job

27. Beating the Recommendation Game

28. Knowing when to Back Off – Don’t Push a Negotiation to Far. 

29. What to Do when Everything Seems to Be Going Wrong

30. When to Keep Your Cards to Yourself

31. Watch out for Warning Signs

32. Don’t Resign Yourself – Redesign Yourself

33. Be a Problem Solver – Theirs Not Yours

34. Dealing with the Boss From Hell

VI. Putting It Together

35. Mastering Your Survival Skills

36. What’s Your Survival Quotient – A Self Assessment Quiz

 

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